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Come and read my blogs for an insight into the world of the alternative lifestyle we lead. I'll be telling the stories of our meets and how it went, discussing my thoughts and giving details of those ever so horny moments! If you'd like to contribute, send in your questions or stories and I'll publish them here. Tracy xx

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So, how do you feel about meeting with younger or new singles and couples?

Tim and I have found this a really common occurrence! The thing is, we find this really good fun. It's great telling our stories and sharing our fantasies and experience. It's also great being a little dominant, asking them to do certain acts and, let's be realistic here, having fun with them between the sheets. There have been a couple of instances where it's a little difficult but, generally speaking, they're great!

This goes for couples and singles. It seems that we tend to meet those new to swinging as a couple or those single guys and girls who are trying it out for the first time.

This may well be because it's something people try but then move on. We've met plenty of experienced members too but do they just find their "friends" and stick to them?

So, we'd love to know, do you find your click and step outside of it now and then? Are you new to the scene and are looking to give it a go?

T and T xx

admin Aug 10 '20
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We are currently developing a rating system, would you use it?

You can add a rating out of 5 for how comfortable you felt and how good they were in the bedroom. You could also add a comment. It would then give an average star rating which is shown on their profile page.

What do you reckon, good idea or bad? Would you ask anything else?


admin Aug 10 '20 · Tags: #rating
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So you have decided to "give it a go" and you have probably spent quite some time discussing who, when, where, why and, most importantly, your emotions. If you haven't, then you probably should. It's best to get some... more
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The Kinsey Scale

I'm just going to leave this here...

Kinsey Scale

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Hiya you beautiful people. It's been such a strange time over the last few months. Tim and I have been quietly housebound, enjoying some time together and quiet drinks in the spa. Soooo, it's time for a little excitement. This afternoon we'll check if the local adult store is open and we'll treat ourselves to a new toy. I do have a favourite, nothing beats it, the Hitachi Magic Wand! I would highly recommend it! But variety is the spice of life so tell me your suggestions...

Who'd like a picture? ;)

Tracy xx

admin May 30 '20 · Tags: #sextoys
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Hi Peeps!

We are constantly working to improve your experience on AltLifestyle.

You can now add your party or a hookup to Date Finder as a private or public event. Let people know if you are free for a catch-up of any kind. Let everyone know when and where or just keep it private and invite members.

If you are travelling, you can let everyone know your plans and where you will be on what dates.


Tracy xx

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We are now putting in place an exciting new concept in free advertising for adult venues.

It's sometimes difficult to find the best adult clubs and where they are, so we have amended the back end of the profiles so we can show clubs, venues and resorts as profiles. You will also be able to comment on your experience with them.

This means you will have a link to their site, their profile will show "club" next to their picture and, more importantly, you will be able to search for clubs in your area. We hope this will be particularly helpful if you are travelling!

We have contacted some clubs to see if they are interested in advertising for free so let's see how it works out... spread the word!

Tracy xx

admin Apr 14 '20 · Tags: #freeadvertising, #adultclubs
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Good Afternoon You Beautiful Dating People,

I'm sure we are all a little worried about ourselves, friends and family during this time. It's a huge stress for many who may have their jobs on the line, just like mine! You may have noticed that we have now added the question to your profiles so you can make an informed choice about meeting others who may have already recovered and hopefully be immune / non-carriers. After all, we just need to flatten that infection curve so the medical system can keep up and look after us all.

Just remember, there are ways to relax and relieve stress. Masturbation reportedly reduces stress and increases immune response. So, instead of meeting for that next date, why not meet online. We have incorporated messaging and video chat into the sites capability. That gives you something to do whilst the bars and clubs are shut.

No need to masturbate alone anymore! Do it with friends safely :). If you're not up for that, perhaps share a few naughty pictures. We should have a competition!

Tracy xx

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Online dating can be so much fun! I may not have mentioned that I think my beautiful men made me cum at least three times before we left the spa. There was definitely a moment when I knocked my glass of red wine into the spa with my head.  Yep – that good!

Before you get upset that perhaps we are ‘talking out of school’, we did tell our sexy hot young man about our dating club and that he would perhaps be a feature on my blog.  I hope he’s reading and smiling!

So, we head to the boudoir, wrapped in towels …... more

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It happens a lot in this game of sex, dating and people, and it is a game. We play and it's edgy and that's what Tim and I get off on. It's outside the norm and, as we were discussing today, it's not acceptable in society. If it was, we probably wouldn't be doing it.

So I send a couple of texts because I know our manicorn for the night is going to a party during the day. The kind of text that lets him off the hook and removes any pressure. "If you're free after the party, drop me a text and we'll let you know if we are still up and ready to play and you can come over"... nothing. That's ok, it happens for all manner of reasons. There's a girlfriend hidden away, maybe he's just backed out because it isn't easy meeting up with a couple on your own. So we make backup plans!... more

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